Comments on: Where have all the good guys gone? http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/ Just another WordPress.com weblog Wed, 20 Aug 2008 13:23:30 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: dawndrium http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-62 dawndrium Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:10:55 +0000 http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-62 My idea of a good guy is someone who is goal oriented, self-motivated, kind, considerate of others, and is not interested in playing Peter Pan. In other words, a good guy is an adult who is truly a good person. Sooner or later, all of us have to grow up. I wrote, "Where have all the good guys gone?" in response to some guys I know who do not want to grow up and tend to blame their actions on scarcity of "good girls". I have heard some wonderful guys talk about how they cannot find a girl they are interested in, but they are interested in the female equivalent of "guys that are into motocross racing, or guys that are in bands and such." I agree with your analysis. There is a difference between guys that will show a girl a good time and a guy that possesses a good character. It takes a good girl to recognize the difference. My idea of a good guy is someone who is goal oriented, self-motivated, kind, considerate of others, and is not interested in playing Peter Pan. In other words, a good guy is an adult who is truly a good person.

Sooner or later, all of us have to grow up. I wrote, “Where have all the good guys gone?” in response to some guys I know who do not want to grow up and tend to blame their actions on scarcity of “good girls”. I have heard some wonderful guys talk about how they cannot find a girl they are interested in, but they are interested in the female equivalent of “guys that are into motocross racing, or guys that are in bands and such.”

I agree with your analysis. There is a difference between guys that will show a girl a good time and a guy that possesses a good character. It takes a good girl to recognize the difference.

]]> By: many women ask where have all the good guys gone http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-60 many women ask where have all the good guys gone Tue, 31 Jul 2007 00:37:10 +0000 http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-60 [...] stumbled upon a post today at wordpress.com from a girl named Heather who was blogging about the issue of not being able to consider marriage because she can hardly find a worthy date. This seems to be [...] [...] stumbled upon a post today at wordpress.com from a girl named Heather who was blogging about the issue of not being able to consider marriage because she can hardly find a worthy date. This seems to be [...]

]]> By: Cinderella’s Dating Dilema « reflections http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-34 Cinderella’s Dating Dilema « reflections Wed, 18 Jul 2007 06:14:02 +0000 http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-34 [...] to each other and their respective roles in life? Recently my daughter posted a blog titled “Where have all the good guys gone?” Since then both of us have had young women literally coming out of the depths of e-space to tell us [...] [...] to each other and their respective roles in life? Recently my daughter posted a blog titled “Where have all the good guys gone?” Since then both of us have had young women literally coming out of the depths of e-space to tell us [...]

]]> By: Julia http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-32 Julia Sun, 15 Jul 2007 04:53:52 +0000 http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-32 Heather, What a post! ;-) I must say that I know what you mean. This post could easily pass for a page from my own journal. I am debating if that is a good thing or not. LOL Heather,
What a post! ;-) I must say that I know what you mean. This post could easily pass for a page from my own journal. I am debating if that is a good thing or not. LOL

]]> By: rhiannonrhythm http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-28 rhiannonrhythm Mon, 09 Jul 2007 14:02:44 +0000 http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-28 Hi Heather :) I guess this is your first name......... just stopped by to say I really loved this post of yours..........I do agree with you to a point that life or better dating life has turned pathetic.......may be I will not grow old as my cats but probably yes like many other creatures;)...........keep blogging and stay happy!! Hi Heather :) I guess this is your first name………
just stopped by to say I really loved this post of yours……….I do agree with you to a point that life or better dating life has turned pathetic…….may be I will not grow old as my cats but probably yes like many other creatures;)………..keep blogging and stay happy!!

]]> By: gardino http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-26 gardino Fri, 06 Jul 2007 18:52:03 +0000 http://dawndrium.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-26 1. All the good guys are married 2. All the good guys that have not married are ugly 3. All good guys with a good looking style who happen to be not married are just a boy 4. All good guys with a good looking style who happen to be not married and mature enough are gay :) 1. All the good guys are married
2. All the good guys that have not married are ugly
3. All good guys with a good looking style who happen to be not married are just a boy
4. All good guys with a good looking style who happen to be not married and mature enough are gay

:)

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